I have a full invoice with the cost breakdown, they did a finance check at the time and the doc is signed by both me and the head of sales, hence it smells like an order. My doubt comes from a lack of number that correlates with others that are waiting, no notification that I am X on the list and absolutely zero communication from the dealership. Apologies for my naivete, I've never ordered a new car before but if this is how it works I am amazed / saddened given the cost of the product.
Also, a friend ordered a GRY from the same dealership when they were first reviews and had a very different experience i.e. all positive.