I had an Elise 220 Cup for c 3yrs before my GRY which I have now had for approaching 4yrs. I really enjoyed Cup ownership but I test drove a GRY on Xmas Eve 2022 and my Elise was sold 4 days later, on Friday 13th Jan I picked up a 6 month old GRY and haven't looked back since. Both fill the role of weekend B road fun car.
For me, the GRY provides more driving enjoyment than the Elise which was a hoot to drive but with too many, what I perceived as, compromises, poor visibility (low to road) hampered overtaking for me, uncomfortable (moreso on poor road surfaces), too loud to listen to music, really poor lights, hopeless air con, zero practicality. By comparison, I love having Android Auto for TomTom, decent air con, reasonable lights, fit gear in the boot, but most significantly I find the GRY suspension and ability to deal with bumpy roads absolutely remarkable, and I really like the seat position which gives me great long range forward visibility on undulating roads.
If I could have an Elise or S2 Exige alongside the GRY for occasional top down summer runs I would in a heartbeat. The Lotus community is great for getting together for drives, I am surprised there isn't more of this with the GR community. I was and still am an active member of Midlands Lotus Owners Club, we organise an annual event (Lotus in the Peak) for charity and get 200 - 300 cars attending and taking parts in organised runs. Club members regularly organise Sunday morning runs out with obligatory brekkie and tyre kicking. I sometimes tag along in my shopping car!
My view is that one petrol heads car is anothers nightmare, similarly one might adore an aspect of a car, another might despise. Maybe reach out to your local Lotus Owners Club, they're a friendly bunch and would happily take you out and talk Lotus all day long. I don't think you'll know if it's for you until you try.
Good luck with your search, buying the right car would be low risk as residuals are pretty strong so probably minimal or no depreciation if you wanted to move it on.
Good luck, let us know how you go!